Falling For Someone You’ve Never Met

Someone asked me before…. “Is it possible to fall in love with someone you’ve never met?” I answered her “no, how could you love someone by just looking at  his picture and reading his text messages ?”

Til one day …. I was asked again with the same question…. but this time… by myself … is it really possible?

…. Then I found myself answering that with the word “yes”….
How could it be?

This may sound a little bit crazy but speaking for myself… falling in love with someone you’ve never met before would  start by a very deep conversation with one another through mail, text ,chat and all. Conversation that will always make you smile every time. And despite the fact that you haven’t yet seen him, you will start liking him.

When would you realize that?

When you are not afraid to share everything about you with him… your feelings, secrets, your thoughts , likes, dislikes, failures, expectations, dreams , plans and some things you haven’t told to anyone yet even with your best friend. When you see yourself in him, astound to know that you have so many things in common , when he talks just like you do … as if you were talking to your own self. When everything feels so natural. And you’ll find yourself checking  your phone constantly.. waiting for his name to pop though you’re trying so hard not to. Your day wouldn’t be complete without receiving even a single message from him. It’s crazy.. yes . It will drive you crazy at first especially when you realize that this someone is the one that making your head spin. You’ll begin to believe that the person you are talking with is amazing and wonder why on earth you happened not to born in his place… you’ll begin to ask “what if…” questions or start your sentences with the phrase “how I wish…”. Then you will dream to meet him one day.. You will start to see your future together. Talk a lot of cheesy stuffs. Share a lots of craziness. Express yourself with no boundaries.

You will love him even though you haven’t yet met him. You will love him deeply even if people tell you that you’re just in love with the “idea” of him, telling you negative stuffs. Making you realize that the thing between the two of you is not real… that it could never be love.. that you’re just dreaming … that you could only be together in the world of make-believe. They will keep on telling you to wake up…. Yet  you will  keep on loving him.

Is it possible to fall for someone you’ve never met?

Definitely yes ! For love comes in many  different ways, different circumstances. It will just suddenly strike you out of nowhere.. Whoever, whatever and where ever  you are. You just have to be brave enough to face all the unexpected things that might happen.

Is it really possible to fall for someone you’ve never met?

If you’re ready to meet that person.. Accept every little thing about him.. If you are not expecting too much.. If  you know in yourself that you’re really in love and  not just in love with the “idea” of  an  ideal person that everyone else is looking for.. If you’re sure enough that your  feelings will not change once you meet him.

YES… it is possible.